Bed Women… The Ultimate Goal Right?
It’s a huge part of most relationships and it has all sorts of crazy benefits.
Aside from that, it’s fun!
It is fun, right?
Sadly, not always.
If you feel like you’re not good enough in bed, you might suffer from:
- Lower self-confidence
- Reduced libido
Equally, if you’re enjoying sex but your partner isn’t, resentments will build up and the relationship might not last long.
The tips below will tell you exactly what women wish you would do in bed, helping you to blow your partner’s mind and feel great about sex.
Are you ready to supercharge your sex life?
Let’s do this.
1. Ask what feels good – what does she wish you’d do?
Okay, so this isn’t a ‘move’ per se, but it is vitally important.
You won’t know what your partner enjoys unless you ask her, and now is not the time to be shy.
If you struggle to talk about sex, try the tips below:
- Stay open-minded. Your partner won’t like all the same things as you, and that’s okay.
- Don’t be embarrassed. If you speak in a calm and confident way, your partner will follow your lead.
- Be respectful. Your partner will enjoy sex a million times more if she feels safe and respected. Be prepared to drop topics or suggestions she’s not comfortable with.
Find out her biggest wish, and you’ll be well on your way to amazing sex.
2. Watch porn together
Watching porn might feel like something you should do alone, but that’s not true!
Ask your partner to show you their favorite types of porn, or watch stuff that’s new to both of you.
Showing each other you like to watch can lead to some fun experimentation – you might surprise each other.
3. Experiment with kinks
A recent study showed that kinks we might think of as strange or unusual really aren’t that rare.
Check out the list of common kinks below – it might be the push you need to get your girl to open up about her secret fantasies.
- Being dominated during sex
- Being spanked or whipped
- Being tied up
- Being filmed or photographed during sex
- Having anal sex
- Having sex with multiple people
Don’t be afraid to mix and match, or try out even more unusual/niche kinks.
The most important thing is that you and your partner are having fun – not everything you try has to be your new favorite thing.
4. Focus on the buildup
We’re not just talking about foreplay here.
Taking the time to create a long, romantic buildup to sex involves a little more effort, but will seriously increase how much you both enjoy the actual act.
Try these techniques for building sexual tension:
We’re not talking about unsolicited pics here – gross!
Instead, take the time to send tension building texts which make creative suggestions, appeal to your partner’s fantasies, and find out more about what they’d like to try in bed.
Prepare the bedroom
Okay, rose petals on the bed might feel a little cliche, but showing that you’ve made an effort will mean a lot to most girls.
Buy a candle in her favorite scent, queue up a playlist you know she’ll love, or lay out a new outfit you’ve bought her.
Make a plan
Wish you were a bit more inventive in bed but never get around to it?
Sitting down to plan an entire scene with your girlfriend can be a fun introduction to role playing, and you’ll both enjoy the anticipation of waiting for the day you carry it out.
5. Buy sex toys
Sex toys aren’t weird. Get that idea out of your head right now.
44% of women between ages 18 and 60 who have used a sex toy, so you can be pretty confident that your partner has either used one herself or would like to.
Online shopping makes it easier than ever to purchase sex toys, with no awkward cashier interactions.
Browse an adult website together and choose toys you’d like to try.
Some of the most popular options are:
- Penis rings
- Bondage gear
- Anal beads
The anticipation of waiting for your order to arrive is sure to build up plenty of sexual tension and gives you both something to look forward to.
6. Change the location
Location, location, location.
It’s true for when you Bed Women just as much as buying a home.
The study we linked in section 3 showed that a whopping 82% of men and women like the idea of having sex in an unusual place.
You can’t argue with those numbers!
Ever wish you could have sex at work? Well, maybe you can…
Get inspired with this list of potential locations:
- In your office
- In public toilets
- At the swimming pool
- In a clothes shop changing room
- On a boat
- In your car
- In a lift
- On a plane
Make sure you stay safe and don’t break any laws.
7. Get someone else involved
Bringing up the idea of a threesome can feel risky, especially if you’re in a committed, long-term relationship.
When it comes to talking about threesomes with a girl you’ve just met at the bar, the potential for a negative response is much lower since she’s not that invested in you.
While you might think of threesomes as one of those things everyone just claims to be having, the statistics say otherwise.
A study showed that 24% of men and 8% of women have already had a threesome, and 32% of women said they’d be interested in having one.
What have you got to lose by asking? Not much.
Make sure the conversation goes well by telling your partner that there’s no pressure on them to say yes, assuring them that you find them attractive, and being open to compromise.
While you might like the idea of a threesome with another girl, your partner might want to get a new guy involved. Staying open-minded can lead to some great new experiences for both of you.
Ready to wow your girlfriend by fulfilling every bedroom wish she’s ever had?
Use these moves and she’ll think you’re a mind reader.