The One Night Stand
Alright, so, you’re looking for a bit of fun and perhaps an adventure. A no-strings-attached kind of fun.
Luckily for you, there are plenty of women out there that want no-strings-attached fun, too. Contrary what your friends and movies may tell you.
You just have to know where to look and make your expectations clear.
When you end up playing the game of enticing a woman in the form of a date without setting your expectations, you’re gonna have a bad time.
You’re gonna end up drawing in the wrong woman.
Before you try to strutting down that avenue, let’s make it clear on what you need to know (and do) about having a one night stand.
1. Be Clear About Your Expectations
Yep, I’m saying it again. You need to be clear about what you want out of your encounter.
No games, no fooling around and acting like you might be interested in a relationship if you’re not.
If you need to flat out say you’re just looking for a one night stand, say it. It’ll save you from bringing home the wrong woman.
The kind that makes the next morning really awkward and wants to grab lunch.
It also pays to be up front up about your expectations if you’re looking to try new things in the bedroom, too.
It works out for everyone involved.
2. Be Smart
Bring a condom.
If you forgot to bring one with you, make sure to pick one up before taking your lady home.
Nothing is as lame and uncool as getting an STI or having an unwanted pregnancy.
I mean, this lady is a stranger – you hardly know her.
So be smart and be safe. For your sake and her sake.
3. Be Respectful
Just because you don’t know this woman doesn’t mean you don’t have to treat her right.
If you know (and you will know) she cannot consent anymore that night, your one night stand is a no go.
It’s a big fat no. Period.
She should be either on your couch with some water and some headache meds or taken home.
On the flip side, if this one night stand is happening, make sure to respect her boundaries.
Even if she changes her mind on something or tells you no.
You’re a gentleman so you are going to act like one. No matter how crazy hot she is and how much you want to do that thing with her she said she wanted to do before.
Don’t be that guy.
4. Relax and Have Fun
The best thing you can do is relax. Remember, this is just for fun.
The more relaxed you are, the more confident you’ll be, and the easier it’ll be to break the ice.
Don’t get frustrated if the first woman you encounter turns you down. Just try again.
Rather than put pressure on yourself, let everything happen naturally. This is just for fun – it’s not a date or finding a girlfriend.